This Guy Is A Lot Of Really Bad Words!

I have already confessed my love for the show The Bachelor. So of course I watched the finale of this season last night and was happy when he picked my favorite from the first episode - Melissa. She mixed well with his family and just loved him and wanted to be a mother and nothing else. Well, my happiness was short lived, because during the After the Final Rose show he decided that he had a change of heart and dumped Melissa and brought Molly back out to see "if there was still a chance". It made me sick.

He claimed that life with Melissa has changed during the six weeks since he proposed. This is totally understandable. I mean, all of the sudden the cameras are all gone, the fairytale destinations and dates are nonexistent, and you are no longer dating multiple people but just this one person. He also said that he couldn't get Molly out of his mind but that he tried for the sake of his relationship with Melissa. All of this I can see and I still don't think he's a horrible person. However, when he decides to break up with his fiance, the girl that he had plans to marry until death do they part, on national television without preparing her in any way, that is what I see as cruel and lower than low! He could have broken up with her privately shortly before the show so that she could compose herself, they could both go on and say that it wasn't meant to be, and everyone's dignity would have been upheld. Nope. Not this loser. He decided it was best to humiliate her in front of America and do it on TV. And he knows what it's like to be humiliated on national TV after DeAnna slammed down his proposal last year. What was he thinking!?!

Melissa, who is pretty much perfect, handled it much better than I would have. She apparently thought everything was going great in their relationship and was really upset that Jason first of all didn't talk to her about the issues he was having and secondly didn't want to try and work through anything or fight for their relationship at all. He just quit. She also had a great line where she said something to the effect of she wanted just one proposal to one guy and he has now stolen it from her. She didn't punch him or slap him and she didn't throw the ring down his throat but just calmly handed it back to him and asked him never to contact her ever again and walked off. He later stated that he believed they could be friends someday. She's not that dumb buddy.

But who is that dumb is Molly, who was brought back with a lot of questions, demands, and apparently, a lot of feelings for Jason. Jason came out and was struggling to get the words out that he had just dumped his fiance and wanted Molly back so Chris (the host) helped him a little bit and Jason told her that he and Melissa had "ended it" and wanted to know if there was a shot and then, very awkwardly, asked if she would go for a coffee or a drink sometime.... She didn't really believe him at first and then was overjoyed to find out that the man who dumped her and beyond broke her heart and couldn't give her any reason why he wasn't picking her in the first place had decided he had loved her all along. Wouldn't you feel at least a bit guarded and cautious after all he had put you through? Not her. She practically threw herself at him and not even joking - less than 30 minutes after he dumped his fiance he was heavily kissing Molly. Sleaze bag and dumb girl. I mean, make him work a BIT harder than that! I really wanted her to say, "Sorry, but you snooze you lose!" Instead, she forgot the pain he put her through and forgave him. Ugh.

I am very frustrated with this whole show. Part of me wants Melissa to come back as the Bachelorette but the other part of me wants her to just take this time to heal privately and find someone out of the limelight. I'm so torn. And still very angry. Stupid TV show for messing with my emotions!